Many people will try to tell you what is best for you and they will not look at wheather or not you will need help. It is bad enough that I know that I need to do somethings yet can't cause I can't afford it. Yet they look out for themselves and ask for my help and I do when I can. The worse part is that in helping them I put my self in a place to not help my self and the worst part is it sucks. I wish I could just look out for me and do what ever and have someone there for me. It is time to take back I have to put my needs first.
Well I write this because there are plenty of people telling me that I need to get a better car. One being my youngest son's farther; who rarely pays his child support and when he does it is maybe a third of what is owed for the month. So he goes and gets a new SUV and tells me I need something better than my car. Even worse I won't say who yet they say the same thing with and added it needs to be a 2005 or better. So I said give me four thousand to put down with my trade in. The response was that I need to and that my payments won't be that high. How hilarious is this?
If you are willing to offer your two cents you should be willing to help I have helped you both many of times and I ask for something simple and cold shoulder.
My lesson is to learn to do for myself. I will not help anyone any more. Y'all can't help me so I have to do for me. Not made just taking it with a grain of salt.
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