It is funny that if you have a child with a man they seem to lose their manlyness and take the estrogen trip. I swear that it took two years for me to come to the realization of this reality with the help of my best friend of course. We where talking on the phone about how much my man tend to trip like he on a period. Then the it hit me like a ton of bricks it did not change til after I had our son. Her husband tells her all the time I should put on a moo-moo and put some rollers in my hair and go to the PTA meetings while you sit on the couch with a beer. We have gotten to the nitty gritty of it all and we are now the men of the relationships. They seem to be PMSing all the time. My man loves to nit pick over the stupidest things. Still trying to figure out though what should I do about it???.

On the other hand though he is also like a 6'2" thirteen year old that knows how to drive. So in what way do I treat him like a hormonal female or a little kid? It is also funny that he likes to contradict his self. A lot of the times he can point something out that he don't like but if I do it it is considered tit for tat. So although we have a child together I feel like I'm dealing with a multiple personalities.

I think it mostly stem from the fact that he doesn't know how to let things that happen to him in the past go. And that as an adult his mom is trying to give him the childhood that she screwed up back. Neither idea sounds like a good plan but I guess she thinks she knows best. He has learned bad habits that have come this far and is now she is enabling him to have even more bad habits. To me a mother love is a good thing but learn when to let loose and cut the cord. He's life to me seems like that movie "Failure To Launch" and I'm wandering how he kept the wool over my eyes so long.

I think mostly that love or what is perceived as love can cloud your judgement and that lust is no helper in that category.